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Kinda a shot in the dark here: have you considered looking into Eastern religion/spirituality and meditation? There are sources around about the more purely psychological aspects of practicing it, if you're not into religion or are into some other religion and don't want to actually start believing in reincarnation or hungry ghosts etc. Might help, might not.
"It will not come by waiting for it. It will not be said, 'Here it is,' or 'There it is.' Rather, the Kingdom of the Father is spread out upon the earth, and men do not see it."
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Viktor77 wrote:I've met a lot of friends on this board but it is true that this board can behave like elementary school kids at the playground sometimes.
Exactly!
I suppose I'm a little bit of both.Sometimes I think that if you aren't among the board's power circle you have to be either a masochist or just one of those people who's always above it all to be an active member here. Unfortunately I fall into the masochist category. I've left this board so many times but keep coming back. But that's because there are some great people here who I enjoy conversing with.
All the more reason why it's not exactly necessary here, too.jal wrote:Then again, any place on the internet is full of people acting like they're elemetary school kids at the playground (and yes, that's a rant too).
Me, too!I for one am glad you're still among us Vik .
A lot (maybe even most) of your posts on the longer side seem to be fairly condescending if not downright rude, and I'm not even the first person to say something to that effect, so those don't seem to justify being rude or condescending as often as you are. I find all of the following to be examples of that:Salmoneus wrote:Because a) some people are awfully rude and narcissistic, and the occasional reminder that they aren't the only people in the world is probably good for them, and certainly good for our ability to cope with them; and b) sometimes people don't seem to be reachable through reasoned dialogue, and it's necessary to make clear just how wrong and/or annoying they are.
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What is that part I just bolded even supposed to mean?When it comes to things like the AmeriNyland Hypothesis, I do do my best to use my indoor voice as long as possible - but sometimes rational argument just lulls people into thinking that they're within the domain where people have rational arguments
"The crackpot thread"?and it needs to be pointed out that they're actually being crackpots like the people in the crackpot thread, and if they weren't members of the board people would be laughing about them in the crackpot thread.
I know this was addressed to Viktor, but I'm guessing you mean this for all members in general, so this is precisely what I've done.But if you have any complaints about people mistreating you, do let us know. I think we've actually got a pretty good record on responding to concerns like that.
Oops.jal wrote:Rant: Damn, all Easter choclates and candy are 50% off. I shouldn't have bought them, now I'm just trying to lose the calories I gained today, tonight at the gym, instead of the ones I was trying to lose that were already on me...
Well, people with some mental disorders at least are often wrongly and unfairly labeled just "stupid," but maybe something like this would help explain, too.ObsequiousNewt wrote:whatjal wrote:Apart from being rude, it's also ablist.Vijay wrote:No, the last time someone called someone else stupid was this:Travis B. wrote:My the idiocy astounds me.Travis B. wrote:You guys clearly don't understand linguistics. [...] "open-mindedness" is not an excuse for ignorance and stupidity.
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This helps explain nothing. Can you please explain this concept of "ableist"?Vijay wrote:Well, people with some mental disorders at least are often wrongly and unfairly labeled just "stupid," but maybe something like this would help explain, too.ObsequiousNewt wrote:whatjal wrote:Apart from being rude, it's also ablist.Vijay wrote:No, the last time someone called someone else stupid was this:Travis B. wrote:My the idiocy astounds me.Travis B. wrote:You guys clearly don't understand linguistics. [...] "open-mindedness" is not an excuse for ignorance and stupidity.
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I spend an awful amount of my free time on the internet watching or listening to debates. Moderated debates, unmoderated debates, debates where the audience is polled; debates about religion, about politics, about science, about social policy, about whether The Force Awakens is just a retread of A New Hope... I've honestly probably seen over a thousand. And so far I don't think I've seen anybody win one of them by saying that what their opponent is saying hurts their feelings.
Vijay, allow me to be frank with you. And just so we're clear, "frank" means that I respect you enough as an adult that I will tell you the truth, and won't infantilize you by putting on kid gloves or by being deliberately deceptive in order to avoid upsetting you: I think you may have misapprehended the purpose and nature of this message board. This is a conlanging and linguistics board, with an active community of people who talk about other things like politics. It is true that the level of vitriol has varied by quite a bit over the years, but it has never been the case that somebody can present a position on linguistics or on politics and not expect other people to challenge it. People take positions, other people take counterpositions, and they argue it out, often quite vigorously, but seldom does it evolve into any actual "flame wars" where people hate and insult each other in earnest. I have often seen new people on this board see two older members arguing over something-- two people whom I know like each other, and who have argued many times in the past-- and they get the mistaken notion that what is going on is a flamewar or that the two people are trolls. Which is fine: different places on the internet and in the real world have different degrees to which people become "loud" when they argue and each one takes getting used to.
The truth is, most of us here respect each other just fine, even when we argue with each other. In fact, if you ask me, it is more respectful to challenge someone's opinions than to just let them slide no matter how ludicrous you think they are, because it means you acknowledge their intelligence enough to know that they either ought to be convinced by your arguments or to have arguments capable of convincing you, and failing either of those outcomes both parties in any case come out more informed, with a more sharpened wit, and with a greater sense of respect (if grudging) for each other. For instance, I can't seem to agree with anything that faiuwle says, but I have said numerous times on IRC that I respect her because she tenaciously sticks to her guns and argues it out, defending her position and never declaring others to simply not be worth talking to, or getting upset at the mere fact that they think she's wrong.
I told you via PM once that I'm not a fan of the "no religion or politics at the dinner table" rule-- the essence behind that is that I think "let's just agree to disagree" (taken as an initial position) is condescending, and that if two people disagree they should argue it out (at least for a while). And if that argument gets heated, then so long as the two remember not to take it too seriously, then that is not flame or acrimony-- it is passion. And some of us are passionate about politics, or linguistics. You can see that in the Na-Dene thread that Salmoneus and Zompist got into an argument over... I can't remember, to be honest, but it got slightly heated, but I can almost guarantee you (you'd have to ask them) that they don't think lesser of each other for it. I also argued with both of them over reindeer herding's effect on language diversity, and in the end they convinced me that they were right and I was wrong. This is what we do.
Which is why I, personally, take umbrage at the fact that you have been here a mere two months and seem (to me at least) to be saying that you want us to stop being critical about linguistics claims, to stop being passionate about what we care about, and to stop respecting each other enough to challenge each other's opinions when we think they're wrong. Some places on the internet are like that. And if Zompist says that from now on it is to be like that, or if someone says that I am wrong about all of this and am glamorizing the nature of discussion on this forum, them so be it. But if you think that I am trying to make new people like yourself unwelcome, then I can only assure you that I am not. You are welcome to present your ideas, and I and others will treat you with the same regard we treat Salmoneus, and respond to those ideas in the same way as if they had been given by Salmoneus or anyone else. And I (hopefully "we") fully expect you to be just as critical of our ideas. If you think I'm full of shit in this post, then tell me why. If you think that we're all wrong about the origin of Native American languages, or about the policies of colonialist Great Britain, or about anything else, then tell us why. But please, please do not simply plant your flag of victimhood, say that everybody is being too "rude" to have a discussion with them, and then demand that the rest of us stop debating each other. Because you will not make very many friends that way.
(The "Crackpot Thread" is the Linguistic Crackery Thread, btw, located in None of the Above.)
Vijay, allow me to be frank with you. And just so we're clear, "frank" means that I respect you enough as an adult that I will tell you the truth, and won't infantilize you by putting on kid gloves or by being deliberately deceptive in order to avoid upsetting you: I think you may have misapprehended the purpose and nature of this message board. This is a conlanging and linguistics board, with an active community of people who talk about other things like politics. It is true that the level of vitriol has varied by quite a bit over the years, but it has never been the case that somebody can present a position on linguistics or on politics and not expect other people to challenge it. People take positions, other people take counterpositions, and they argue it out, often quite vigorously, but seldom does it evolve into any actual "flame wars" where people hate and insult each other in earnest. I have often seen new people on this board see two older members arguing over something-- two people whom I know like each other, and who have argued many times in the past-- and they get the mistaken notion that what is going on is a flamewar or that the two people are trolls. Which is fine: different places on the internet and in the real world have different degrees to which people become "loud" when they argue and each one takes getting used to.
The truth is, most of us here respect each other just fine, even when we argue with each other. In fact, if you ask me, it is more respectful to challenge someone's opinions than to just let them slide no matter how ludicrous you think they are, because it means you acknowledge their intelligence enough to know that they either ought to be convinced by your arguments or to have arguments capable of convincing you, and failing either of those outcomes both parties in any case come out more informed, with a more sharpened wit, and with a greater sense of respect (if grudging) for each other. For instance, I can't seem to agree with anything that faiuwle says, but I have said numerous times on IRC that I respect her because she tenaciously sticks to her guns and argues it out, defending her position and never declaring others to simply not be worth talking to, or getting upset at the mere fact that they think she's wrong.
I told you via PM once that I'm not a fan of the "no religion or politics at the dinner table" rule-- the essence behind that is that I think "let's just agree to disagree" (taken as an initial position) is condescending, and that if two people disagree they should argue it out (at least for a while). And if that argument gets heated, then so long as the two remember not to take it too seriously, then that is not flame or acrimony-- it is passion. And some of us are passionate about politics, or linguistics. You can see that in the Na-Dene thread that Salmoneus and Zompist got into an argument over... I can't remember, to be honest, but it got slightly heated, but I can almost guarantee you (you'd have to ask them) that they don't think lesser of each other for it. I also argued with both of them over reindeer herding's effect on language diversity, and in the end they convinced me that they were right and I was wrong. This is what we do.
Which is why I, personally, take umbrage at the fact that you have been here a mere two months and seem (to me at least) to be saying that you want us to stop being critical about linguistics claims, to stop being passionate about what we care about, and to stop respecting each other enough to challenge each other's opinions when we think they're wrong. Some places on the internet are like that. And if Zompist says that from now on it is to be like that, or if someone says that I am wrong about all of this and am glamorizing the nature of discussion on this forum, them so be it. But if you think that I am trying to make new people like yourself unwelcome, then I can only assure you that I am not. You are welcome to present your ideas, and I and others will treat you with the same regard we treat Salmoneus, and respond to those ideas in the same way as if they had been given by Salmoneus or anyone else. And I (hopefully "we") fully expect you to be just as critical of our ideas. If you think I'm full of shit in this post, then tell me why. If you think that we're all wrong about the origin of Native American languages, or about the policies of colonialist Great Britain, or about anything else, then tell us why. But please, please do not simply plant your flag of victimhood, say that everybody is being too "rude" to have a discussion with them, and then demand that the rest of us stop debating each other. Because you will not make very many friends that way.
(The "Crackpot Thread" is the Linguistic Crackery Thread, btw, located in None of the Above.)
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– The Gospel of Thomas
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Discriminating against people with disabilities. Does that help at all?ObsequiousNewt wrote:Can you please explain this concept of "ableist"?
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Sure, but what about Travis' post is doing that? He's calling you stupid for what I think is a perfectly reasonable, well, reason: that you are holding on to an idea that is inherently laughable, and which Cev pointed out as being idiotic. I'm not going to say that Travis should have used insulting words directly, but I have to agree with his observations.Vijay wrote:Discriminating against people with disabilities. Does that help at all?ObsequiousNewt wrote:Can you please explain this concept of "ableist"?
And all of this has nothing to do with disabilities—why is that relevant at all?
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Claiming that "stupid" is albeist is essentially saying that criticizing one for having markedly poorly thought-through ideas, in this case ideas that reflect a very poor apparent understanding of basic linguistic principles that even I, a non-linguist, understand, especially since the person in question really ought to know better, is somehow discriminating against people with mental disabilities, even when in context it clearly has no such implication. Are we now not allowed to use words like "stupid" and "idiotic" to directly describe amazingly poor thought or judgement, just because someone somewhere has judged those words to be "problematic" (no, I am not following the link)? And saying that I was being rude is in essence saying that I should have been oblique instead of direct in saying that, as if I should have treated Vijay with kid gloves, as if being rude were somehow worse than pushing ideas with fundamental, insurmountable failings, in this case by channeling Edo Nyland, and then refusing to listen to any criticism of such, including by using an argument from authority, i.e. "I have a master's degree", as if that somehow made what one said any more valid.
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As for "ableist", I will refer you to a few blog posts of people who can explain it better than me (yes, they're all from the same blog site, but that doesn't matter to get the gist).
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Note that I do, for a large part, not agree with most of their opionions, especially not with mundane words like "crazy" (I argued against it being ableist in the 3rd post in the comments). But in general, I think it is good to know why people could find certain language offensive, even if you think they shouldn't, or don't find it offensive yourself.
JAL
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Note that I do, for a large part, not agree with most of their opionions, especially not with mundane words like "crazy" (I argued against it being ableist in the 3rd post in the comments). But in general, I think it is good to know why people could find certain language offensive, even if you think they shouldn't, or don't find it offensive yourself.
JAL
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Insults are supposed to be offensive, what's their purpose otherwise?
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Insults are not supposed to be offensive to someone else besides the one insulted. If I were to call you a "sissy" or acting "gay", some of the resident population might be offended (and rightly so).hwhatting wrote:Insults are supposed to be offensive, what's their purpose otherwise?
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If you were the type of person who uses "sissy" or "gay" as insults, would you care about people who are offended by these words?jal wrote:Insults are not supposed to be offensive to someone else besides the one insulted. If I were to call you a "sissy" or acting "gay", some of the resident population might be offended (and rightly so).hwhatting wrote:Insults are supposed to be offensive, what's their purpose otherwise?
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But this isn't even comparable. "Gay" describes a quality that is not inherently bad (unless you believe it is, in which case, you wouldn't care if you were offending anyone.) Whereas "stupid" is a quality that is inherently bad.jal wrote:Insults are not supposed to be offensive to someone else besides the one insulted. If I were to call you a "sissy" or acting "gay", some of the resident population might be offended (and rightly so).hwhatting wrote:Insults are supposed to be offensive, what's their purpose otherwise?
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Θαιν. Θαιν. Θαιν. Θαιν. Θαιν. Θαιν. Θαιν.
Ο ορανς τα ανα̨ριθομον ϝερρον εͱεν ανθροποτροφον.
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Yes, you might*. The whole idea of pointing such things out is to inform people that they may be inadvertently offend people, so they can choose to either change their language, or be knowingly insulting other people in the process.hwhatting wrote:If you were the type of person who uses "sissy" or "gay" as insults, would you care about people who are offended by these words?
*"That's so gay" seems a common expression amongst youth meaning "that's so boring/annoying/otherwise not suitable".
That makes them not completely similar, not incomparable.ObsequiousNewt wrote:But this isn't even comparable. "Gay" describes a quality that is not inherently bad (unless you believe it is, in which case, you wouldn't care if you were offending anyone.) Whereas "stupid" is a quality that is inherently bad.
JAL
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In other words, because someone somewhere has used "stupid" to describe intellectually disabled individuals or with the implication that the person so described is intellectually disabled, we all cannot use the term regardless of context or implication, at risk of offending said intellectually disabled individuals (or more like inflaming SJWs* that have declared the term to be "problematic" rather than actual members of said group), regardless of what the term actually means in English. So now we cannot use any term that has been used anywhere by anyone to describe <choose your group> negatively or to imply that membership in <choose your group> is negative, lest we somehow offend members of said group (or, in reality, inflame SJWs who have declared themselves as defending said group)?jal wrote:As for "ableist", I will refer you to a few blog posts of people who can explain it better than me (yes, they're all from the same blog site, but that doesn't matter to get the gist).
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Note that I do, for a large part, not agree with most of their opionions, especially not with mundane words like "crazy" (I argued against it being ableist in the 3rd post in the comments). But in general, I think it is good to know why people could find certain language offensive, even if you think they shouldn't, or don't find it offensive yourself.
* Sorry, but there really is not a better term in English.
Dibotahamdn duthma jallni agaynni ra hgitn lakrhmi.
Amuhawr jalla vowa vta hlakrhi hdm duthmi xaja.
Irdro. Irdro. Irdro. Irdro. Irdro. Irdro. Irdro.
Amuhawr jalla vowa vta hlakrhi hdm duthmi xaja.
Irdro. Irdro. Irdro. Irdro. Irdro. Irdro. Irdro.
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Yes, I think that's basically what they are implying, plus the fact that more people have a mental illness (including depression) than is apparent for obvious reasons (people don't like to come forward with it in general, though this board seems an exception), so both mental illness and the use of words like "crazy", "idiotic" etc. are quite common, so in this specific case there might be a point to it (iirc bestowing Republican presidential candidates with terms like "insane" was I think the motive for writing the aforementioned blog posts).Travis B. wrote:In other words
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A fallacy people seem to make is that just because such-and-such term has been used at some time by some to refer to such-and-such group negatively that is automatically the prototypical meaning of said term synchronically. Take the term idiotic, for instance; they would say that just because idiot once referred to intellectually disabled individuals, the use of the term idiotic synchronically is ableist, even when the original usage of the term idiot has become archaic if not simply forgotten. Likewise, because insane is etymologically derived from sane, which has as one meaning "mentally healthy" (mind you it can also mean "reasonable, sensible"), they would say that the use of the term insane to refer to people who are markedly lacking reason is ableist, even when it is synchronically not being used in context with any implication of mental illness.jal wrote:Yes, I think that's basically what they are implying, plus the fact that more people have a mental illness (including depression) than is apparent for obvious reasons (people don't like to come forward with it in general, though this board seems an exception), so both mental illness and the use of words like "crazy", "idiotic" etc. are quite common, so in this specific case there might be a point to it (iirc bestowing Republican presidential candidates with terms like "insane" was I think the motive for writing the aforementioned blog posts).Travis B. wrote:In other words
Dibotahamdn duthma jallni agaynni ra hgitn lakrhmi.
Amuhawr jalla vowa vta hlakrhi hdm duthmi xaja.
Irdro. Irdro. Irdro. Irdro. Irdro. Irdro. Irdro.
Amuhawr jalla vowa vta hlakrhi hdm duthmi xaja.
Irdro. Irdro. Irdro. Irdro. Irdro. Irdro. Irdro.
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Another factor to consider is just who are writing these blog posts. From all appearances they are people who are easily offended or, shall we say, offended-as-proxies. As for myself, I am mentally ill, yet I for one do not feel that negative things are being implied about mentally ill people such as myself when people use terms like "insane" to describe Republican presidential candidates or "crazy" to describe crackpot linguistic theories, as I have a sufficient understanding of the English language to know better and I do not go out of my way to get offended.jal wrote:Yes, I think that's basically what they are implying, plus the fact that more people have a mental illness (including depression) than is apparent for obvious reasons (people don't like to come forward with it in general, though this board seems an exception), so both mental illness and the use of words like "crazy", "idiotic" etc. are quite common, so in this specific case there might be a point to it (iirc bestowing Republican presidential candidates with terms like "insane" was I think the motive for writing the aforementioned blog posts).Travis B. wrote:In other words
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Dibotahamdn duthma jallni agaynni ra hgitn lakrhmi.
Amuhawr jalla vowa vta hlakrhi hdm duthmi xaja.
Irdro. Irdro. Irdro. Irdro. Irdro. Irdro. Irdro.
Amuhawr jalla vowa vta hlakrhi hdm duthmi xaja.
Irdro. Irdro. Irdro. Irdro. Irdro. Irdro. Irdro.
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I'm not seeing the parallelism between these terms. The use of "idiot" to mean "intellectually disabled" is, as you say, obsolete at this point. But the use of "insane" to mean "mentally ill" is very much an active part of the language and it's not at all clear in every context whether or not that is the primary meaning.Travis B. wrote:Take the term idiotic, for instance; they would say that just because idiot once referred to intellectually disabled individuals, the use of the term idiotic synchronically is ableist, even when the original usage of the term idiot has become archaic if not simply forgotten. Likewise, because insane is etymologically derived from sane, which has as one meaning "mentally healthy" (mind you it can also mean "reasonable, sensible"), they would say that the use of the term insane to refer to people who are markedly lacking reason is ableist, even when it is synchronically not being used in context with any implication of mental illness.
For instance, Ann Coulter is frequently called "insane". But beyond that, I see people speculating openly about whether she has some kind of mental impairment which causes her to think as she does and I genuinely can't tell how serious they're being.
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To me, the vast majority of times when people use the term "insane" they do not really mean that the person so referred to is mentally ill. To me, when people refer to Ann Coulter as "insane", they are not implying that she is actually mentally ill, and I have not seen anywhere anyone seriously considering that she is depressed, bipolar, schizophrenic, etc. etc. Rather, the "mental impairment" they are implying that she has is her markedly lacking reason, as the positions she takes are clearly unreasonable to anyone other than hardcore conservative ideologues. Note that this is distinct from actual mental illness, as being mentally ill and being markedly unreasonable are two entirely different things.linguoboy wrote:I'm not seeing the parallelism between these terms. The use of "idiot" to mean "intellectually disabled" is, as you say, obsolete at this point. But the use of "insane" to mean "mentally ill" is very much an active part of the language and it's not at all clear in every context whether or not that is the primary meaning.Travis B. wrote:Take the term idiotic, for instance; they would say that just because idiot once referred to intellectually disabled individuals, the use of the term idiotic synchronically is ableist, even when the original usage of the term idiot has become archaic if not simply forgotten. Likewise, because insane is etymologically derived from sane, which has as one meaning "mentally healthy" (mind you it can also mean "reasonable, sensible"), they would say that the use of the term insane to refer to people who are markedly lacking reason is ableist, even when it is synchronically not being used in context with any implication of mental illness.
For instance, Ann Coulter is frequently called "insane". But beyond that, I see people speculating openly about whether she has some kind of mental impairment which causes her to think as she does and I genuinely can't tell how serious they're being.
Dibotahamdn duthma jallni agaynni ra hgitn lakrhmi.
Amuhawr jalla vowa vta hlakrhi hdm duthmi xaja.
Irdro. Irdro. Irdro. Irdro. Irdro. Irdro. Irdro.
Amuhawr jalla vowa vta hlakrhi hdm duthmi xaja.
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Travis, as a simple experiment, Google "ann coulter mentally ill" and tell me what you see. Either these people are seriously discussing whether or not Coulter does, in fact, suffer from a DSM-defined disorder or they are using "mentally ill" with the same non-literal value as "insane". Since armchair psychological diagnosis is our real national pastime anymore, I genuinely cannot tell in most cases.
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Re: Venting thread that embraces everyone without distinctio
No, see, that's not how it works. The words are incomparable in the way that you are using them. Calling something "gay" in such a manner is (debatably) attaching negative meaning to a word. Calling something "stupid" isn't; it's using the word, which has by definition a negative meaning, exactly the way it would descriptively be used.jal wrote:Yes, you might*. The whole idea of pointing such things out is to inform people that they may be inadvertently offend people, so they can choose to either change their language, or be knowingly insulting other people in the process.hwhatting wrote:If you were the type of person who uses "sissy" or "gay" as insults, would you care about people who are offended by these words?
*"That's so gay" seems a common expression amongst youth meaning "that's so boring/annoying/otherwise not suitable".
That makes them not completely similar, not incomparable.ObsequiousNewt wrote:But this isn't even comparable. "Gay" describes a quality that is not inherently bad (unless you believe it is, in which case, you wouldn't care if you were offending anyone.) Whereas "stupid" is a quality that is inherently bad.
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Re: Venting thread that embraces everyone without distinctio
Ah, no no no no no. Belgium looks like shit among the countries that have been attacked recently.Hey look Salmoneous, I agree with you. Belgium has been absolutely shit at everything you mentioned.
If, for instance, it were Poland that had been attacked, then it would be a whole new world of post-tragedic institutional mayhem.
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Re: Venting thread that embraces everyone without distinctio
Ooh, positive "anymore" captured in the wild.linguoboy wrote:Since armchair psychological diagnosis is our real national pastime anymore, I genuinely cannot tell in most cases.
Re: Venting thread that embraces everyone without distinctio
That is bascially what I also argued in the comments. But still, if many* people think it's offensive to use these words, you could at least be informed that this is the case, right? (I would perhaps not use this words around people I know don't like them, for example.)Travis B. wrote:A fallacy people seem to make is that just because such-and-such term has been used at some time by some to refer to such-and-such group negatively that is automatically the prototypical meaning of said term synchronically.
*I don't think there has been a conductive survey, but at least that's what we're lead to believe.
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