Simmalti wrote:Zayk wrote:I know someone whose parents talk to him only in Albanian, but he talks to them only in English. He is essentially a native 'listener', but, according to him anyway (I can't prove this), he cannot speak the language.
I knew a girl at university whose parents were both native Maltese-speakers but she grew up in New York. Her parents only speak to her in Maltese, and she can understand it quite fine, but she says she´s not able to speak it, and downright refuses to try.
On the other hand, what would happen if a monolingual English couple raises their child in say... Italy. Will the child grow up speaking English to her parents and Italian everywhere else?
Yes, if the parents don't speak Italian. Again, it's all about how important it is to the child to pick up the language – if there's a necessity to speak and understand English at home, they'll pick it up. If the parents speak/understand Italian, it could probably go either way, because as you see with your friend in Maltese, she didn't learn the language when it wasn't necessary.
I know plenty of examples of this... I know someone who's trilingual in Chinese, French and English because she grew up in Hong Kong to a Chinese father and bilingual French/English mother. I think French is her weakest, and I suppose in China she wouldn't have got much French input, maybe only from her mother, but you can probably speak both Chinese and English in Hong Kong anyway.
I know someone who fits your bill pretty well: Italian with a British mother I think. I do think she's stayed in the UK before though. I dunno. Basically she's a native English speaker as well as Italian, but can't write for shit because she was never educated in English.
I met an I think Kiwi expat when I was in Holland whose kids could speak Dutch – naturally, he didn't understand a word of it and had no reason to learn it because he was in a posh, diplomat-infested suburb of the Hague with two international schools where everyone spoke English (as if they don't in the rest of the country, of course...), so his children were presumably bilingual.