ZBB member photos, part 5. (Something for the weekend, sir?)

[Io]

You don't look blond on any of the previous pictures I've seen, must be light, I don't think any of them was taken outside.

[lctrgzmn]

You guys look like you're a cute couple.

What inspired the trip?

I agree with this. Y'all are adoooooorable (even if you're not a couple, what do I know).

[Gulliver]

Rad looks like he has lost weight - it suits him!

But come on - not even an awkward little smile?

[Radius Solis]

Pictures in which I'm smiling tend to be my least attractive ones. With a straight face I can sometimes get away with "handsome" in a good light, like here. But when I smile in pictures I look like one of the kids who rides the short bus to school!

[Viktor77]

Pictures in which I'm smiling tend to be my least attractive ones. With a straight face I can sometimes get away with "handsome" in a good light, like here. But when I smile in pictures I look like one of the kids who rides the short bus to school!

I don't blame you, they make fun of my smile here too.

[Torco]

Ero-loli/visual kei photoshoot at Swan Point cemetery.

pweety

[jal]

pweety

Looks too much like sho! :)

Also, if one were to say they'd do her, would that be sexist? If so, is Astraios a sexist? Mmmm, food for thought...


JAL

[Astraios]

Also, if one were to say they'd do her, would that be sexist? If so, is Astraios a sexist? Mmmm, food for thought...

How is it sexist to say you'd do someone? Sexism is discriminating against someone for their sex, and how is saying you'd do someone discriminating against them?

[Bob Johnson]

Also, if one were to say they'd do her, would that be sexist? If so, is Astraios a sexist? Mmmm, food for thought...

How is it sexist to say you'd do someone? Sexism is discriminating against someone for their sex, and how is saying you'd do someone discriminating against them?

Remember, complimenting a woman on her appearance is sexual harassment, and complimenting a man isn't; therefore any sort of compliment is gender discrimination.

[Astraios]

Remember, complimenting a woman on her appearance is sexual harassment, and complimenting a man isn't; therefore any sort of compliment is gender discrimination.

Suddenly all has become clear!

I guess I am a sexist then, because I also think Queen Xalele's pic is pweety.

[Torco]

I don't know if I'd do her, the photo doesn't show anything about her, other than clothes, a bit of eye, and like the fact that she has eyelashes and knees. Still, the photo is pretty, I don't know whether she is as well.

Also, how can it be sexist? because everything you say to a woman that you wouldn't say to a non-woman is sexist, silly.
nah, really, not that I think so, but because it's objectifying her, is the underlying argument, I reckon. As for whether fancying=objectifying, I really don't think so, but I can see why someone would. I get the feeling that said identity depends on the person's underlying conception of attraction; are men be attracted to boobs alone, so to speak? or even to the faint chance of bedding some random female? if yes, then its safe to say that spontaneous and immediate attraction is probably objectifying, if, on the other hand, attraction is more complicated than that and you go "I'd do her/him" because said first impression, be it a photo or whatever, tells you something about who they are as a person, or evokes sort of an infatuation, as opposed to a simple, emotionless, de-humanized will to fuck, then no, it's not.

Myself, I don't think dehumanized will the fuck is the norm; while it's easier for anyone to dismiss unwanted romantic or sexual attraction as such I imagine sexual attraction and other emotional constellations are quite co-ocurrent.

what, too dense for the gay perving thread?

[MisterBernie]

...are we going to have this discussion again? I think it's the fourth time since I joined the boards.

[Astraios]

I imagine sexual attraction and other emotional constellations are quite co-ocurrent.

Not really. I find some older guys (like 40+) sexually attractive, but no way would I want an emotional attachment to them, for example.

[Io]

why not?

[Astraios]

Because a) it feels wrong, and b) they're going to die in like two days already.

[Io]

why does it feel wrong?

b) is outright stupid

[MisterBernie]

IME, with a significant enough age gap, the older guy tends to treat the other like a child rather than an equal partner, and that's annoying and possibly icky. I personally don't want to date a guy who I feel I should call 'mommy'.

[Astraios]

Because I'm discriminating against old people, obviously!

Also, what Bernie said.

[Bob Johnson]

a guy who I feel I should call 'mommy'.

Uhh. Should I ask?

[Io]

so you only find them sexually attractive but wouldn't would them? or you'd would them but wouldn't want an emotional attachment?

i dont have such experience so i wouldn't know how they treat each other.

[MisterBernie]

Uhh. Should I ask?

I'm referencing a couple I know. Whenever I see the two of them, the older guy is hovering around his boyfriend like a mother hen around her chicks.

[Torco]

a guy who I feel I should call 'mommy'.

xD lawl

[Astraios]

so you only find them sexually attractive but wouldn't would them? or you'd would them but wouldn't want an emotional attachment?

I might would them, but it depends on how motherhennish they are. If they're motherhennish right from the start, then blergh no, but if they hold it off until the woulding is over, then I would just would them and run away after.

[Io]

well, that's what i dont understand, you'd would them but run away even if they're fine personality wise

[Astraios]

Well, no. Motherhennishness is a personality flaw, and that's what'd make me run away, and since it usually ends up like that, I'd run away. If they aren't going to be motherhennish at all then fine, maybe it can be friends as well as just sex.